The Becoming.......

The Becoming…..

A simple word BECOMING. Yet the word leads to anything. It doesn’t have a definition. We choose the ending. To become….. I am becoming…. What? For what? To who? How do I become? Why do I become? What does becoming mean to me? The BECOMING!!!!! I have one way to understand this expression and one way to define it in my world. I am becoming whoever I want to be. My becoming is my purpose. Wherever I stand, I will become that. War between the mind and the heart is a battle most people lose. They lose because they conform to either the mind or the heart. To live in your becoming, you are living in alignment with your mind and your heart. The battle is won when decisions are made naturally. I am there, people, I won the battle. The internal quake. The internal dilemma, the internal hurricane. The only answers you can find to help you will be the ones your self-awareness conjures up. You find the answers to who you want to be. It sounds simple, yet probably 70 percent of the world has yet to find the answers. Why is it so hard for you to help yourself? The first question you need to ask is WHY? Why do I conform? Why do I people-please? Why? This question is used because your curiosity needs the answer. Usually, the question is used to gain knowledge from something outside of you. I found that asking myself why I do something helped me understand and then acknowledge it. To become, you need to understand yourself more than anything else. The truth must live in every room you enter. When you walk with certainty, you are not bothered by anything you can't control. The whole point of questions is to find the answer, and when you continue to ask yourself questions, you continue to find the answers to who you are. Who are you? Please write it down. I promise that when you do this exercise, you will either find it easy or find it difficult. If it's easy, you are living in your purpose. If it's hard, your soul is still looking for its purpose. Your mind and heart find comfort when your core values are being honored. So, here's another question. What are the top three core values you look for in other people? Do you embody those core values? Are you true to those core values? If the answer is no, then you will be living an internal battle until you start honoring those values.